Let them be together, and as a result, their relationship has not reached the "seven-year itch". In 2005, the relationship between the two turned red.
With the intervention of another actress, Gao Yuanyuan, their six-year relationship came to an end, and Gao Yuanyuan, who was ridiculed by the media as "the third girl is superior", was also criticized for this incident.
What Gao Yuanyuan didn't expect was that she and Yu Xia had been entangled for less than a year, but Yu Xia turned back and asked Yolanda to get back together, leaving her to silently accept being laughed at by the media.
Yu Xia ran back to get back together with Yolanda for the simple reason that Yolanda is a woman who is more suitable for life.
In fact, Yu Xia made the right choice. Since she married Yolanda for so many years, Yolanda has not only been trying to play the role of a good mother, but also grasped the identity of her daughter-in-law.
From the glamorous actress in front of people to the "wife" who handles family affairs after people, the contrast between Yolanda's plays and plays is really too great.
With the help of yolanda, Yu Xia solved the love-hate entanglement with her parents for many years, and yolanda's cleverness untied the knot that had been entangled in her husband Yu Xia's heart for many years.
Under the careful management of Yolanda, many families have appeared the phenomenon of "disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" and "family disharmony". With the arrival of Yolanda, there has never been such a situation in Yu Xia.
Speaking of it, as an "outsider", why can Yolanda let her husband let go of her parents-in-law who have resented for many years? What means does she have to make her mother-in-law treat her better than her own daughter?
One,
Yolanda, a native of Jingzhou, Hubei Province, was born in an ordinary family in 1977. Her father is a table tennis coach, her mother is a local primary school teacher, and she has a sister.
Because both parents have serious jobs and stable income, Yolanda's family conditions are not particularly good, but she was well-fed and happy when she was a child.
Her teacher and mother are a person who knows how to enjoy life. Every weekend or holiday, she will take her two sisters out to play, and usually buy them all kinds of beautiful clothes and dress up well.
Influenced by her mother, Yolanda is full of interest in all beautiful things. 1 1 years old, Yolanda, who was in the fourth grade, met the secondary drama school affiliated to China Theatre Academy to enroll students in her primary school. Curious about new things, Yolanda signed up for the exam.
Originally, I just thought it was fun. I didn't expect Yolanda, who was moist and lovely since childhood, to be really attracted.
In this way, Yolanda officially embarked on the road of being an actor, and studied Peking Opera performance at the Theatre Academy for seven years.
/kloc-When she was 0/8 years old, Yolanda gave up the road of Peking Opera for a longer-term development and entered the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama to study acting instead.
Yolanda, with outstanding appearance, was very watery at that time, and with the solid foundation laid by studying Peking Opera for many years, she successfully passed the Chinese opera exam.
1996 officially entered the Chinese opera campus, and became classmates with several actresses who later became very popular, such as Zhang Ziyi, Mei Ting, Hu Jing, Ceng Li, Zhang Tong and Amanda.
Because of their excellent relationship and outstanding appearance, they are also known as the "seven golden flowers" in Chinese opera and are sought after by many suitors.
In the year when she entered Chinese opera, Yolanda met a man who had been pestering her all her life. This man is her senior Yu Xia.
Second,
Yu Xia is one year older than Yuan Quan, and he also entered Chinese opera one year earlier than Yolanda. More importantly, before he entered Chinese opera, he had already entered the entertainment circle with the film Sunny Day directed by Jiang Wen.
This work not only opened the door to the entertainment circle, but also won the Best Actor at Venice International Film Festival, Best Actor at Singapore International Film Festival and Best Actor at the age of 17. At the same time, he was the first person in China to win the title of Venetian Film Emperor!
As the saying goes, "Debut is the pinnacle". With this debut, Yu Xia quickly gained a foothold in the entertainment industry and became a hot newcomer in the entertainment industry.
By the time Yolanda entered Chinese Opera, 20-year-old Yu Xia had become the man of the hour on the campus of Chinese Opera, almost the idol and male god in the hearts of all junior girls.
Even the female students familiar with yolanda at that time, such as Zhang Ziyi, Mei Ting and Amanda, had already established themselves in the entertainment circle. She is the only one, and she is still a "little white" without much performance experience.
She later recalled her feelings on the show and said, "In the first half of my career, I always felt that the sky was gray."
In order to stand out from the talented Chinese opera campus, Yolanda has been studying all kinds of acting very hard since she entered Chinese opera. When others are busy falling in love and playing around, only she is immersed in her studies.
However, what people didn't expect was that Yu Xia, who was already famous at that time, had a strong interest in Yolanda, a primary school girl.
Yu Xia has been infatuated with Yolanda since I met her on campus. In order to get to know Yolanda, he also found a school girl who admired him to match him.
As a result, I realized that I met Yolanda, but Yolanda was only interested in learning and didn't want to talk about anything romantic with him.
Every time Yu Xia asks Yolanda out to play, he has to make an appointment for a long time, and it is often the kind of 10 times that he refuses 8 times.
1997, Yu Xia, who has known yolanda for half a year, finally agreed to go out on a date with him after a long period of caring and attentive.
They went to the Great Wall to see the night scene together, but the weather was not good. When they reached the foot of the Great Wall, it suddenly rained heavily. They can't go anywhere but listen to music in the car.
Yu Xia is playing Aaron Kwok's I'm a little bad tonight. Sitting in the car, Yolanda listened to this song and looked at Yu Xia's side face. At this time, she finally had a good impression on Xia.
Later, Yu Xia continued to launch a fierce offensive against Yolanda. Yolanda, once secretly promised Yu Xia's heart, reserved for a long time and agreed to his pursuit.
Third,
After being with Yu Xia, she talked about her sweet love with Yu Xia while trying to make herself better, especially considering that her boyfriend Yu Xia has also made achievements in the entertainment circle, she is afraid to relax herself.
1999, Yolanda, who is a junior, finally has a chance. Director Teng Wenji took a fancy to her pure temperament and invited her to participate in The Fantasy of Spring.
Yolanda, who was acting for the first time, originally just wanted to give it a try, but because she played the role of "Zhou Xiaomei" so well in the film, she won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress.
Yolanda, who has emerged in the entertainment circle, has also ushered in a breakthrough in performing arts. After graduating from Chinese opera, her first work, Blue Love, was nominated for the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress.
In the next few years, she successively filmed the Lover's Sword, Vortex, Beautiful Foot, Little Fish and Hua Wuque, and all of them achieved very good results.
Later, she collaborated with her boyfriend Yu Xia on the work "Shanghai Rumba". Because the relationship between this work and her boyfriend has become more stable, Yolanda can't help but sigh: "I have never been so comfortable with an actor. He is not only my working partner, but also the other half of my life. "
However, what she didn't expect was that when her career was getting better and better, her feelings suffered setbacks.
In 2006, her boyfriends Yu Xia and Fan Bingbing were exposed by the media. Yolanda said generously after seeing the photo: "I believe him, this is a scandal."
As a result, Yu Xia and actress Gao Yuanyuan didn't cooperate for long in the play Encounter, but they really staged an "encounter".
At that time, Gao Yuanyuan was labeled as "mistress" and "meddling" until Yolanda came out to explain that she and Yu Xia broke up peacefully for two months before she moved into Yu Xia's home in Gao Yuanyuan.
The affair between Gao Yuanyuan and Yu Xia didn't last long. They have been entangled for less than a year. Realizing that Yu Xia has always been popular with Yolanda, they went back to ask Yolanda to get back together. Under Xia's repeated assurances, Yolanda, who loves him deeply, agrees to get back together.
After leaving Yu Xia, I met Zhang Yadong, Yu Xia and others, Gao Yuanyuan, and finally met the only thrill Mark Chao. Later, they not only entered the marriage hall, but also gave birth to a daughter. Now they are very happy.
Fourth,
Yu Xia, who was separated and reunited with Yolanda, especially cherished this feeling after finding Yolanda. Under his careful care, Yolanda once again believed in his sincerity.
In 2009, Yolanda, who was infatuated with Yu Xia, agreed to his proposal. When friends around her learned that she was going to marry Yu Xia, they all advised her to think it over, because Yu Xia's family was not particularly good.
When Yu Xia was 3 years old, his parents divorced because of disagreement. Not long after the divorce, his mother found a new man who lived with his father.
But his father was a busy man, and he was not at home all the year round, so he left him at his aunt's house.
At first, his parents will visit him, but as time goes by, both of them seem to have forgotten him. It can be said that when he was a child, he always lived a life of "regardless of his parents".
Fortunately, Xia's uncle and aunt have always regarded him as one of their own and raised him as their own son, which has both the grace of raising and the grace of education.
Because Yu Xia was not particularly happy when he was a child, many friends were afraid that Yolanda would be wronged after marrying him. Yolanda said, "I know him. He is definitely a good man. I am married. "
In this way, the two of them began to prepare their wedding nervously. As a result, when the wedding was about to be held, Yu Xia suddenly found her and said, "Otherwise, if you are a witness, don't ask my parents, let my uncle and aunt do it for you!"
Yolanda was puzzled at first, but then she thought for a moment before she realized that Yu Xia had always had bad feelings in her heart and couldn't let go of her parents when she was young.
Yolanda strongly disagreed. She said that everything else in the wedding could be compromised, but this was not the case, so when they got married in 2009, Yu Xia's parents were finally invited as witnesses.
Only when Yu Xia thanked his relatives as the groom, he didn't say too many words of thanks to his parents. Instead, I said a lot of touching words to my uncle and aunt.
Compared with the aunt and uncle who were moved to tears at the wedding ceremony, Yu Xia's parents looked a little sad. They never imagined that in their son's heart, they were not as good as his uncle and aunt.
Understanding Yolanda saw all this. Since she married Xia Jia, she has been seeking to solve the relationship between her husband Yu Xia and her in-laws.
Five,
20 10, when she gave birth to her daughter Xia, her mother-in-law took care of her. Compared with her husband Leng Bo, Yolanda showed great enthusiasm, which made her mother-in-law particularly moved.
When my father-in-law who settled in Japan wanted to come back to see his granddaughter, she also offered to welcome him, but Yu Xiacai refused, which gave them more time and opportunities to get along.
May be old, when Yu Xia's father had the idea of returning to Beijing to settle down, Yu Xia acted lukewarm, or Yolanda took the initiative to accompany her father-in-law to look for a house everywhere.
Yolanda, who has always regarded her in-laws as relatives after marriage, has been trying to resolve the contradiction between her husband and her in-laws and ease the relationship between them.
Now she has been married to Yu Xia 12 years. Through years of hard work, she not only untied her husband Yu Xia's heart knot for many years, but also completely eased the relationship with her parents with her help.
Through getting along with his father, Yu Xia also understood that it's not that his father didn't want to accompany him when he was a child, but that he couldn't support him if he didn't concentrate on his work at that time.
As for his mother, after divorcing his father, she also formed a new family, and it is even more impossible to treat him like the mother of an ordinary family.
With the help of his wife yolanda, Yu Xia gradually understood and put all this behind him.
After the rapprochement with his parents, Yu Xia is no longer "old and dead" with them as before, and will take his wife and daughter to visit his parents' home on holidays.
As his father is a painter, he also visited his father personally when he held an art exhibition. Now he is getting along with his parents more and more harmoniously, and everything is developing in a good direction.
Six,
Although Yolanda spent a lot of time at home and dealing with the relationship between her husband and in-laws, she never left her acting career. After so many years of marriage, she is still trying to bring good works to the audience.
She has brought us films such as Great Shanghai, Drug Control, Love Flowers, Golden Age, Romantic Death History, etc. It has been recognized and supported by the audience.
20 18 She won the title of "Performance Star of the Year" in TV Quality Festival for her role of "Tang Jing" in My First Half Life!
Besides, her recent performances in Captain, Joy of Life, The Last Romance, 192 1, Chinese Doctors, Falling Flowers and so on have won the support and love of the audience.
She is getting better and better. She has become an influential and popular actress, and her acting career is better than that of her husband.
Yolanda, 44, has done well in her family and career. She took good care of her family and career and became the envy of almost all actresses.
She exchanged infatuation and tears for the warmth and happiness of her family and the harmony between her husband and in-laws.
With her own efforts and persistence, she has achieved success in her career and won the support and recognition of the audience and fans.
It can be said that Yolanda, who is now the winner of life, deserves our support and recognition in all aspects.